If you word your sentences like that nobody is going to understand you. i can't even respond to anything but the last one.
The discord and before it the offsite exist in large part because other nations can see straight into our boards. so we cant have reasonable discussion on here. Thats 1 major reason we will never have a full onsite offsite until the u21/nt is basically dead and gone.
Beyond that, these boards are a style that was probably from 2004, so they're pretty useless in large part. There is no easy way for new owners to find information they need without reposting, which then clutters the forums. Add to that the fact that i cannot actually talk to people in PM's if one of the two of us doesn't have support (because of the character limit), and you have the reason that some people never make it past the first week in this game without being frustrated.